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I was dating this 33 year old woman named Cindy from Rosenberg. She knew I was married and going through a divorce. But I had known her 7 years and she had told me if I ever got single to give her a call, so I did. Her words to me were "I would ride that bus every day". Well we started seeing each other then she kicked me to the curb twice because I asn't "metro" enough and I was too old for her. I am 52 right now. But I had been crazy about her for 7 years! Long story short she is beautiful, sexy and has a great sense of humor, but that is all. Guys I am here to tell you that she is a self-admitted bitch (she warned me), a control freak, and in my opinion devoid of any compassion or emotion if she even senses a hint of weakness in a guy. She played me hard, took ny credit card for a big ride while all the while telling me she loved me, wanted to marry me and wanted me to move in with her. Then in the middle of Hurrican Ike in Texas she decides once again that she doesn't want to see me anymore. When I mentioned to her the feelings she expessed for me she tells me that she didn't want to lead me on! HELLO! what the hell what all that talk supposed to make me think. Plus she has big time mother issues and self-esteem issues. She used to tell me that she would rather run away from problems than try to work problems out. Translation: guys are gonna get the boot because she is scared of commitment. She just will not and cannot commit to anyone. I tried to love her, I really did but I was banging my head against a wall with this chick. If you ever see her you could not help but fall in love with her. Even her mother warned me that she doesn't stay with a guy more than 2 months. Cindy even told me the same thing but I refused to listen. I was stupid to think this could work. She always told me she didn't need a man and that she was fine on her own.When I asked why she wanted me to move in she told me it was to help her get out of debt. Not one word was said about her supposed "love" for me. When I met her she didm't even have a bed. Thinking maybe this was going to work, I bought her a new queen sized bed and some other stuff on my credit card of course. Hell she even kept my pillow. The moral of this story is this: guys steer clear of this one. She has a beautiful exterior but she is empty on the inside and only cares for herself and what she can get from others. She talks a good game but her words are meaningless. If you want to see what this user and manipulator (my opinion only) looks like go to MySpace and look up Cindy in Rosenberg. She will pop up showing her age of 33. Guys just steer clear of her and hold on to your wallets, or else it will be a rough ride! You all have been warned!!!
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Jessie Lee Drummer. This is an old black guy, He is very fit with nasty flat nose with a mole in it. He is a gym rat. He claims to be a Cristian. He wants unproctected sex without your permission. He will forced himself into me and then a week later I had some nasty smell,discharge coming out of me. I confronted him and he acted non chalant. He is very cheap miserable. He wont take you out on dates. His main purpose is to use you. His personality is creepy quiet and callous. He is around Emerald way,Culver City
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Robin Hickson (AKA Robin Morgan, AKA "Sue") is a crack whore from Newtown CT, who went out with me to use me and then use my friends. She would make friends with someone, gain their trust, then steal from then to fund her crack addiction. she moved her ex back into her house, telling me her daughter was mentally ill and he was doing some work on the house. I was stupid, yes, but she kept omploring me to trust her, all the while she was smoking rock all the time and cheating on me with this dude and who knows who else. She is a liar, cheater and crack whore. Stay away!
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The guy was chasing me for a month. He could not get enough of me. He takes a vacation and calls me daily with love and kisses. He gets back and tells me, "I think you are too good for me." I am confused and do not understand. Not to mention it is my birthday! I ask him what happened and somehow it becomes all my fault. He calls me a "whack job" and says he never wants to hear from me again. This was all in the space of a month.
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This guy had been dating this girl for 12 YEARS. He was always open about the fact he didn't want children, but because she turned on the waterworks and begged him, he finally consented and after the BABIES were born she kicked him to the curb. Now she treats him like he had committed some heinous offense. He loves the twins and want to take them out places, she tells him no. He is a real good father to the twins and she is just being nasty and evil towards him.
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Well I met this great guy, Cee-Jay, back in Aug of last year. We hit it off pretty good and he seemed like we were prefect for each other. Well he had come out and told me a story about a 14 year old girl who was running her mouth about them doing sexual things and it was nothing. I believed him cause there are so many girls out there now a days that do that, I didn't think twice. That was my first mistake. Well eventually we got engaged and than we got married Feb 29th, 2008. I had moved to SC back in Nov. and every month he was suppose to be moving to SC from MI. Well come to find out his little situation with the 14 year old was more serious than I ever imagined. After we got married he had told me he was drunk and didn't know what happend. The story did keep changing throughout the relationship, so by this time I didn't know what to believe. Come to find out he did stuff with this girl 10 before he met me and never told me. After I find out more about it he ended up getting very controling. Being that he was 12 hours away from me I just figured it was stress from being apart, never thought anything of it. Than he had a court date that he was sentenced at, I couldn't make it but my parents did and he didn't let anyone in because it was suppose to be "dropped". Then I end up finding out through an old neigbor that he's on the sex offender list. I ended up writing her back defending him telling her its all a mistake and everything like that. I end up looking and he has a 2nd Degree criminal sexual conduct, with intent to penitrate, thats not nothing to me anymore. So I confront him and he does what he's good at and lies to me about it. Come to find out he had one higher than that and pleaded down. We have been seperated now for only 2 months and about 3 weeks ago I found out I'm pregnant with his child. When I told him he didn't seem happy or surprised or anything. You would think for a guy who claims to love me he would be happy no matter what the situation is. He than continues to tell me what his sentencing was, which is every weekend in jail for 10 weeks and 5 years probation. Than he tells me at the end of the conversation for me to give him a call sometime. Okay whatever. Than out of no where last night I get this random call from someone i don't even know. Come to find out they know my ex because he is dating his 18 sister and he's 27. I find out he tells her that he's really big into church (when the church would probably burn down if he stepped foot in it, led alone being a big church person) and he's on a softball team (which is true, but its through a guy from works church team not his, that he goes to a church softball camp on weekends, instead of telling her that he's in jail, that he has never been married and I'm his ex girlfriend, not wife. Well you better believe that i made sure i told her brother EVERYTHING and when he got off the phone with me I got a call from their mom trying to figure all of this out. They had found his name and everything under the sex offenders list and she had some quesitons to ask. Well not only is he an idiot for letting the girl he's dating brother call me, like I wasn't going to tell them the crap that he's put through, but he now has one less girl to lie to and be put in the situation that heartless ass hole put me through. Oh and to him its ALL my fault we broke up because I left him in time of need. When in reality I have a 4 year old as well, that isn't his, that I have to protect. No appoligizes not anything from him. His name is Cee-Jay Mancuso for any girl out there that knows him or see's this and wants to date him.
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Kim O. (Overland Park, KS)
High school love (she blows me off then), meet 7 years later, she proposes to ME, then runs off without a word.
2 years later, I get an e-mail she's married, happy without me, and moved on.
9 years later: she found JESUS, gets me on facebook, looking for forgiveness & comfort
You know what the shittiest thing in the world is? The biggest WTF EVER??
When the best parts of your life you shared with someone bites you in the ass ten years after that person disappears on you, you run into the, and THEY'VE FOUND JESUS...
...and your best times with that person are their biggest regrets.
Forget that ignorant crap.
Why is it that every time someone finds Jesus & feels all emo, I have to be the one who they attempt to make feel like shit?
"Oooo... look at me. I'm so much better now than then, better than you now, and you could be too." Right...
Some of the best & dearest memories I have with another human being, and how CHEAP & WORTHLESS do you think they are now?
You know, it's one thing to have some stranger, a guy you know, or some complete asshole come along and screw with you. Take you money, your woman, screw with your life. You can beat his ass, call a bud, dump the chick. But what do you do when it's some 2000 year old ficticious character from one of the most BORING and useless books of all time?
I'm supposed to love THAT guy? Why not Manson? Or David Koresh? They both claimed to be the son of God, and at least they were tangible.
WTF has he done for ME lately, anyhow?
Holy crap... time to move on all over again. Again.
I'd like to thank this life changing (not for the better) moment to the following:
1. The woman I wasted so much of my life with, wanting, believing, caring, missing, or thinking about
2. The little church by her & her creepy looking hubby (who I wasn't the man she was willing to be 'emotionally mature' enough with but he was... kudos f**ker)
3. Jesus, who found her apparently and not her finding him.
4. The Easter Bunny, Santa Claus, and other ficticious characters spewed forth by Christianity.
5. Her parents for giving her the push to becoming so screwed up that FICTION'S all that could help her.
6. Every asshole that ever used her.
7. Terrorists, since I just want to jump on the band wagon & blame them for everything.
8. Heavy metal, video games, and carbs (you should count with 7)
9. Every asshole she ever LET use her.
10. Her. Her for using the SHIT out of me on & off for almost 20 years when it served her best to once again make someone else's life the "happily ever after".
Kudos, you sons of bitches. Talk about THIS at church on Sunday. Sing about this with your little group. Go pat yourselves on the back in your after church/potluck/circle jerk about this guy.
Only guy I'm really PISSED at is ME for letting it all happen in the first place.
A-friggin'-men.
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This site is like a train wreak. You just have to look! Anyway I am 46 years old. So I have seen some shit. I was married for 10 years and with the girl for 14. The relationship was ok. We had the American dream going.
My ex was cheating at work with a guy who was 20 years older than her. She brought this man to our house and tried to make us friends. Weired, right? Anyway that was almost 13 years ago. It was a very bad time for me. When shit like this happens you think you will never move on. But you know what, you will. And you will be smarter and the love that put the spring in your step will return. Only until your crushed again!! lol Then you start all over. Once you accept the fact that nothing (relationships) lasts for ever. You will be able to find one that will. I know it sounds strange. Life is like a roller coaster...exiting! With its ups and downs! That 14 years I spent with my wife was dull, plain. I am glad she cheated on me or I would have missed a hell of alot of life.
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If you are a complete gentleman who tries every day to show the woman you love how much they mean to you, then AVOID THIS LYING WHORE:
Let's see... latest trainwreck was named Shannon and she's from northwestern MN. Skinny ass in a small town with an 11 to 1 ratio of men to women, and what few women are there are complete 300+ lb hogs. Anyhow... best gal in the whole town... lvoes me to death... and turns out to be a raging, alcoholic, pot abusing attention whore. Dumps my ass at a bar saying "This bar & these people are my life & I don't see you fitting in it". That very night FUCKS her drug dealing-abusive ex. Then starts fucking with my job (we worked together) to the point I had to quit. Fucked with all my "friends"... lost most of them. Even went to some small town cop claiming bullshit about me so now I'm getting stalked by them too. She followed me three counties away, fucked a guy I knew, and the next weekend goes 160 miles to my motorcycles club's bash to crash that and raise hell. I quit the club as they wanted her drunken club-slut tit shows more than a brother. Now she's pregnant with some fat, inbred, drunk farmboy's kid. Superb. Nice karma. She's at www.myspace.com/damprecious33 and you need to avoid this crooked bitch like the plague. I had every dick in the town that either HAS BEEN or wants in her pants after my ass, her lardass drunken drama queens, her cop buddy, her fuck/drinking buddies at work, and her family after my ass... and for WHAT?? As she said, "He treats me like gold. When guy's treat me like shit, I love them... but when they treat me like gold I run". YOU FUCKING WHORE! I hope her kid is born with flippers & gills from all the booze & drugs she's done... least of all the inbreeding. I was married once and my wife cheated on me with my only brother and THIS BITCH took the trophy away from her.
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I dated a woman from las cruces her name is atilana orozco 575-621-7805 she lives on Gladys Street. I thought she was a good hearted woman turns out she was just a slut she not only hooked up with me the first night i meet her but it turns out she was also screwing Eddie, went to vegas to screw Josh, and was dating a married man all of this was happening when she supposedly wanted to settle down. She screwed me over don't let her do this to you...just f**k her and move on cuz that's all she's good for.
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My story is re-run of just about every other story here. Jealousy, rejection etc etc. Except I bought a place just 2 doors away from my ex, whle we were still together, and am now stuck with him and his new live-in GF. I have no reason to move, I love it here but have to constantly deal with bumping into him around town. I've found out he's back on a dating site which he did to me so he is a serial cheater. That makes me feel better in a strange way. I've now had no contact with him for 2 weeks, after 5 months of fighting through the break up, and that feels good too. There is hope for you all. Be strong, keep the force against cheaters, go with your feelings, don't listen to others, listen to your heart and you will find peace eventually.
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HORSENOMAD HAS BEEN PLAYING ME SINCE LAST YEAR (JAN 2007). GOT ME TO BUY A PLANE TICKET THEN BEFORE IT WAS TIME TO FLY HE STOPPED TALKING TO ME....UNTIL HE NEEDED ME AGAIN. HE LIES ABOUT HIS FEELINGS. HE JUST TOLD ME SEVERAL TIMES THAT HE LOVES ME WHILE HE IS FUCKING A 24 YR OLD GIRL. HE IS 45 AND HAS A KID HER AGE. LAST WEEK HE TOLD ME TO GET MY ASS UP TO JERSEY BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE WAS ALSO TELLING THE 24 YR OLD THE SAME THING. HE DOESNT LOVE ANYONE. HE JUST NEEDS A HOLE TO PLUG. TOO SHALLOW FOR ME. GLAD I NEVER PUT OUT TO HIM! IM TOO SMART FOR HIM!
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Kristin Kowalczyk, Beware this girl is nuts my friends and is from the Metro-Detroit, Michigan area. Not only will she try to take all your money buy she loves to play the victim. Everyone is crazy she will say. She will push blame onto everyone else and make others look bad when in fact it is really her who is the insane one. This person has kids and she can't take care of them at all which of course is not her fault according to them. The funny thing here is that she works for a michigan hospital and u would think she would be making great money, but that is not the case and even so she would much rather us ur money then her own. further more she is not what she appears to be other then the money issue. She also may have a std becasue the last guy she was with that i know of has found to have HIV so guys please watch out for her. she is abusive and will puch the blame on you and will lie to u about being raped just to get attention and sympathy which is all of course untrue stories. yes i said abusive, she has kids and this chick will come at u like no other. she will throw things at ur head and she will often push and shove u to try to get a rise out of u. DO NOT DATE THIS CHICK I REPEAT DO NOT DATE HER.
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My ex bf and I were together almost a year this time. Before that we were together for almost a year. We were apart for 3 years both of us dreaming of being with that person. Then we got back together recently and it was the most wonderful thing in my life. I loved that man so much and still do. Yet I am so confused as to what happened. Even though I was the one to break it off it wasn't because I wanted anyone else or anything else but that he just had so many jealousy issues and was not even willing to commit to me at all.
I needed to finish school and with all the drama he brought to my life about constantly thinking I was always looking for someone else which I wasn't .
I never showed him how much I loved him granted but he never gave me the security in the relationship I craved. I wanted to be with him for no other reason than the fact that I fell deeply in love with him.
He could do anything wrong and I would take the blame and not even accept that maybe this guy single at age 45 had some emotional issues and relationship issues which was why he was still single. He is not ugly at all to me and I am sure he could have other women , but this guy lied to me alot about alot of things.
I am a person who takes things for what you say and hope you are telling the truth. He lied to me about his ex gf that he dated coming to see him before we dated. Because it was after. This guy was in love with his mother and not me. In the end he gave me up for his mother because she offered him money to do so. Honestly I want someone who will do anything for me and i feel the same way. I want someone who loves me enough to stand up to their mother and say I love this girl and no I will not leave her no matter what. But he cares more for money than for anything else. And that was the dealbreaker.
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I don't get this. I think I've always had a problem with holding onto feelings for a guy, even if it's killing me.
My ex, AJ, for example. He's a great guy with some issues. We used to get a long great, but the issues got in the way, broke both of us down, and drove us apart.
Honestly though? We could work, but it would take a LOT of effort. We are very different people. He's extroverted, I'm intoverted. He's pessimistic, I'm optimistic. We have a lot of similarities too, but I can't shake the feeling that I can find someone I connect with better.
I feel better out of the relationship. The stress from it was too much.
So why can't I let go of the feelings I still have for him? Why do I still want that safe feeling he gave me, no matter how many times he hurt me? Why does it hurt knowing he'll be with someone else one day, even if I am too? Why can't I stop thinking about him?
Do I just need time away?
And hell, I still miss the friendship part.
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I wanted some advice from you guys.
I just broke up with my ex about 2 weeks ago. We were together for almost 6 years. We are both in our late 20's. I met him when we were much younger. I finished university and post-graduate work and began my career as a professional. He was also in university but struggling to complete his studies. I encouraged/helped him to finish university and pursue further studies that he was interested in. During the time we were togheter, he never had a job, until I started to help him and encourage him to look for work and build his own career. It finally worked and he got a job, moved out of his parent's home and I thought he had become independent.
I did everything for him (i.e. emotional support/guidance/financial support when he needed it). I was not just a girlfriend to him, but I was a best friend, a confidant, a guider. I loved him with all my heart and soul and would have done anything for him.
But at some point, I felt that things changed in our relationship. I felt that he didn't appreciate me at all, didn't respect me, and took me completely for granted.
I found out that he did some things throughout the course of our relationship that were dishonest with other girls (he didn't cheat on me but he wasn't completely honest either). I think he had a problem being truthful and upfront with me about a lot of things during the whole time we were together.
2 weeks ago, he left me with no choice but to end things. But I'm so upset and confused. He didn't attempt to contact me at all to explain why he hurt me so much.
I am so tempted to contact him again but I know that he wouldn't even apologize or acknowledge the wrongs he has done to me.
Why can't I just get over this?
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It's funny how my fucking breakup is going along exactly as everyone has described theirs. My ex calls out of the blue - she must have called my number ten times in one night - and says she is so miserable because the guy she dumped me for hasn't called her in two weeks and she hasn't had sex in two months (so she claims - we broke up just over a month ago). I don't want to have ex sex, I don't want to just fuck her body - because she claims she loves him and not me - but I can tell she is still sort of on the fence, and I don't want her to be insanely horny the next time she sees this guy. She says they have "hung out" maybe ten times, but never had sex. Is this believable? If I have sex with her, will this make her less likely to sleep with him and maybe reconnect with me even a little bit? Or is she just using me to ease her lonliness and couldn't care less about dumping me again as soon as her new man decides to call her. God, it hurts that she is giving him all her love and waiting for him and making him the priority over me. Obviously I am her second choice. I am so confused, but I miss her so much.
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I have never been one to dwell on a relationship. I was with a guy for five years before I met my most recent ex. That relationship was very even keeled. Then when we split I met my most recent ex. He was my tattoo teacher and very animate about having a relationship. He pushed me to prematurely take our relationship to another level emotionally really early on, while I was still getting over the other guy. For about five months he was obsessive and loving, then he changed into an emotionally abusive controlling bf. He made me feel like I was the lucky one to be with him when he was a high school drop out drug addict who was afraid to leave his parents basement and get an apartment.(he's 26) I tried so hard and by the end, I was paying for him, driving out to see him, basically holding on to something that wasn't there. We were together for almost two years and out of the blue he just up and leaves. I never heard from him again and now after abusing me for a year, I'm expected to just pick myself up and move on. I found out he started dating this girl right away with the same fervor and undying love he claimed for me. How could I have been so wrong about someone? Now over a month later, I'm still very empty and have been absolutely emotionally destroyed. Anyone who shows me any type of attention I am kinda freaked out by. I still feel like im waiting for him to change his mind. Is this normal behaviour given the circumstances?
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4 days ago my girlfriend and I split. We had been together 7 and a half months. The longest relationship I ever had. Not only that, but it was the first time I ever got the girl I wanted. Any other I ever had was either someone setting me up with someone, or someone who liked me but I didnt like them back. This time, I saw the girl i wanted. I found her on my own and won her over. The first three months were as if nothing could go wrong whatsoever. Then finally she started getting distant. I asked her if something was wrong and she said nothing, and then she tells me the next day (over the net) that she needs some space. So we went without seeing each other for about a week, but we still talked on the phone for about 10 minutes each night. After that things started to get a little better but it was still like she was running from me inside. Then she ended up having to go to Florida for a family emergency and the whole time she was gone she called me everynight and when she got back it was like it was before for about a week and then the distance came back. We ended up having our first real fight about a week later. We didnt talk at all for about 3 days and didnt see each other for a week. Then after that, things were like they were before for about another week. But finally in our last 3 months or so together, she would want to see me one day and be distant as hell for the next 2 weeks. I would hardly hear from her and anytime i could get some time with her or get her on the phone, she was acting like it was more of a chore for her than anything. My gut instinct was telling me she didnt love me anymore. For about two weeks straight upon finally seeing this, I cried everyday. I was greiving before it was even done. Finally I talked to her about it. She didnt show much emotion and didnt seem at all affected by what I said, and things started getting better, she was calling me more, making her way to me more, and it was almost (not quite) but almost the way things were. This lasted for about 3 weeks and then the whole vibe that she didnt love me anymore came back and sure enough I was right. I got tired of it always being so good and then so bad the next. so I tried to break up with her this past wednesday night but in a panic and fear of letting go I backed out but she knew what i was doing and later than night (and over the internet mind you) she finished it. Telling me exactly what I saw coming months ago. Today is day 4 night 5, and naturally I feel the sting and Im having trouble, but my troubles got worse about 10 minutes ago when I read a blog on myspace that she had posted talking about how much fun shes had in the last 4 days and how happy she is. and on top of that, she stayed all night with her best friend and her boyfriend and her boyfriend's brother, who is also her ex. and that has just absolutely shot my nerves. I'm still freaking the fuck out as Im typing. Last year, the almost exact same thing happened to me a year ago. the only difference is I didnt see it coming then and me and that girl were only together a month. But this time around I think its just a little bit worse.... the 7 months I was with my ex now, she was my life. I loved her more than my own life. I suffered with her, i cried when she cried. it litterally drug me down when something was wrong. I bought her stuff at random, did all those sweet things a girl loves a guy to do, and the only thing I have to show for it is a shattered heart... so I feel your pain man... believe me.
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Help. i feel sooo depressed. Was with my girfriend for just under 2 years until recently. We done everything together and were/are best friends. There was no argument or nasty break up, just she said she wants to be single for a few years. She says she wud love for us to get back together sum time in the future. Its like me were made for each other but found each other too soon. I cant stop thinking about her, 1st thing on my mind when i wake up and last thing when i go to sleep. I dont not want to know her, i want her in my life even if it is just friends.....?????????
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I dont come here too often, but I got a big blow tonight. I am very happy about my divorce, I was cheated on many many times. In all of this I have gotten a little place to live for me and my little girls (3 and 4 y/o) and we do ok. But tonight I get a call from their father (my ex) and he is wanting to talk to them for the first time in who knows how long. He tells them and me that he is getting married Jan 2 and has bought a house and they will have a nice new room, etc... Ok for some reason that ruined my day. I mean, I work hard for what the girls and I have. He provides minimal child support. The girls are on WIC and we live in subsidised housing. It takes all I have to make sure they have what they need a just a little more. Now he has a new house, two new vehicles, is getting married... Ugggg.... why does it bother me? I dont want to be with him or anything like that, but it bugs me that he is on top of the world while I am on my butt....
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So today I had to meet the X at the bank to some of my papers out of the safety deposit box before the new year. He's going in for surgery soon and he looks like h*ll...It such a shock to see him looking so sick...We decided it'd be easiest to just close the box out, and as we were in the little room removing everything, I was struck by the futility of it all.
Renting a little locked box to keep all the "important" stuff safe...so futile as all this stuff doesn't mean anything in the end....it's all just the trappings of the world....and neither does being "safe" either.... really.
At the back of the box was a camcorder tape marked with the name of our dead pet...I welled up when I saw that cause I'd forgotten it was in the box...he said he'd make a copy for me...and when he saw the papers and photos I'd pulled out as mine, he apologized....for everything....and I knew he meant it.
Then we just left the little room and turned in the key. That's it. It's done.
I even got my apology. So why don't I feel any better? Cry
Is it just because I know now that "safety" is the ultimate illusion?
It's going to be okay...what I lack in optimism and luck I make up for with bravery...
Bring on the New Year.
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J.J. was so awsome and I saw no reason for us to break-up, but even though he liked me he dumped me at my Auntie Tina's wedding. That seriously ended the happiness of the day for me. I cried my eyes out for about an hour and his mom who was drunk as hell got pissed off at him and made him sit down for 20 minutes. Now I'm over him and have moved on to another boy, but something gives me the feeling that I would end up taking him back. Am I lame?
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I dated Marshall for seven months, and we fought often. Our fights were always about the same thing: drugs and alcohol. I used to have an addiction problem and I overcame it, but he still wants to do it. I'd threaten to leave him and he'd swear not to ever do it, but finally after hearing his promise for the billionth time, I got sick of it and told him he's pushing me away and treating me like an authority figure who he resents. He got mad, and kicked me out of his car on the highway and I had to walk 5 miles to my grandpa's work. Enough is enough!
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There is a guy who I liked for a really long time off and on and same with him. We kept liking eachother at the wrong time. Finally, we got together. Everything was perfect...except for my best friend. He kept flirting with her and would even do things with her without me. Everyone said that our relationship wasn't right, even his best friend. For other reasons, I was having depression problems. I still loved him and finally for the first time we were together. But I couldn't handle all of my problems at once. So I broke up with him. A week later, he asked my best friend, Anais, out. She said no, but he asked her out again. She had told me she didn't have any feelings for him, but she still said yes. What a liar! I was so upset! I still regret what happened more than ever.They are still dating and I can't even look at them together!
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I met this guy at church. I used to go just to see him until one night he finally came up to me. From that night he called me every day and made me feel special. One day he went out of town. He stopped calling, did not write me, and completely forgot about me. I call him, but he answers the phone and says he is not there. I am still hurting till this day.
My_Breakup
I met my man in December and we dated for 3 months. At first he was so nice he wouldn't even let me do nothing. Then all of a sudden he started to ask me about having kids. I am 23 and he is 43 so I said no, cause I just met him. He tried but I was smart not to get pregnant. So he began to change, until one day he decided we should break up. But it's a good thing cause I'm happier now. He never provided for me, he never had money, he would give me his old shirts and stuff. But I'm hurt cause I stayed with him when he was nobody and he can't even explain to me why he don't want to be with me no more. But I know he will be sorry, cause what goes around will come around.
My_Breakup
Me
and the “perfect guy”
had been together for 2 years,
and at 19 that's a long time.
Our families liked each other,
although mine took a while. I
was by his side through a drug
problem, being homeless and
everything that he needed help
with. He was grateful, told me I
didn't need to. But being my
first real boyfriend I stayed—I
thought we loved each other
right? Well two years later he
lives at home, has a good job
and a car. A month after he got
the car and his friend came to
work with him, we started to
have problems. We are on a
"break", whatever that
is. I feel like I was there for
him when he was down and I just
want the same in return. He says
that there is no other girl but
I don't believe him. I still
love him and we'll just see if
he's a normal scared guy or just
a big jerk.
My_Breakup
From
the moment I laid eyes on Evan I
knew he was the one—it's
cliche but it felt so real. We
were together three years, but
two days before our anniversary,
he broke it off. The story: Evan
moved away for school and when
he came home on the weekends all
he did was play hockey and hunt.
Where did I fit in? On our
anniversary weekend, I asked if
we were going to spend time
together—no hockey, and
especially no hunting. His
reply: “Will you be mad if
I go hunting?” I said “Are
you kidding me? You would rather
go hunting then be with your
girlfriend?” And he said,
I don't care if you’re
mad, I’m going anyway. I
said, ”You know what, if
you go you won’t have a
girlfriend to come back to.“
So he went and broke it off and
said I was too clingy. Whatever.
I am still in love with the
bastard only because of our
history, but in my heart I know
I am better off and that he will
never find a girl like me.
My_Breakup
Instant
magnetism. That's the best way
to describe meeting Jack. Our
eyes met, locked and about 2
minutes later we were kissing
shamelessly in front of
strangers. He had a devilish
look in his eye and, at first, I
wanted to run, but his intrigue
and my curiosity pulled me in. I
like to compare our 2- week
encounter to a whirlwind hit and
run—he swept me up off my
feet, knocked me on my ass and
left me feeling victimized and
disoriented. I didn't get a good
look at the license plate, but
the make and model, I'm sure I
won't soon forget. Jack was the
perfect gentleman, called when
he said he would, wanted to see
me all the time, and of course
said all the right things.
Within 48 hours I was hooked. He
would text message me in the
middle of the day just to say
"hi" and "miss
you baby", which naturally
made my heart melt. After a
week, he talked about future
plans with me and shared his
feelings. I should've known
something was up right there!
Everything was going fine until
one Friday night when I didn't
hear from him. Experts in
treating the "too good to
be true blues", my
girlfriends took me out to bash
out the hurt. To my surprise, my
honey had actually tried to
contact me but something was
wrong with my phone and I didn't
get the message until the next
day. So I called him back... No
answer, his phone was turned
off...for four days! I was
worried that something tragic
had happened because there were
no red flags, no indication that
he was dissing me. On the fourth
day, I got a text message saying
that he was away, just got back
into town and wanted to see me
the next day. The next day came
and went. I struggled with the
uncertainty of what was
happening for a few days and
sent a text message back
declaring that I thought there
was something more between us
and that all I wanted was the
truth. To this he responded that
there was, and he was going
through a rough time but still
wanted to see me when he was
feeling better. I knew that the
chance of seeing him ever again
was getting slimmer by the day
but his reassuring message gave
me some hope. This pattern of
sporadic messaging continued for
weeks. My stomach was in knots.
I had such strong feelings for
him and so many questions. How
could someone who kept leaving
me messages that he missed me
not return a single phone call?
I sent one final message telling
him not to contact me further
unless he planned on calling me.
His response was another text
message saying that he wished me
well in 2005 and hoped that I
would take a giant leap in my
search for happiness. I never
responded but I hope he takes
giant leap off of a tall
building! Still have a ton of
questions and am now left
dealing with an empty "what
went wrong?" feeling. I
know it isn't my fault, silly me
for trusting someone, but I
really wish I knew the real
reason, even if I could hear him
say to my face that he's
"just not that into
me".
My_Breakup
5
a.m—not the usual time
for my boyfriend to be out of
bed and having a conversation.
He sent me a message thru my
mobile saying "It's over,
this just isn't working
out..." For a minute I
thought I was dreaming but then
i realized—wake up!
you're losing him, do something!
I immediately asked him why but
he refused to tell me. I was so
confused because we never even
had a fight, and we were talking
on the phone just the night
before. Then it was just gone—over.
I cried for a minute or two,
then it felt like I never knew
him at all. Since that morning
we haven't talked, and even if I
was clueless about what went
wrong, I said to myself,
"I've had it, I'm not going
back to him..." Now I'm
enjoying the company of this
really nice guy and whenever I'm
with him, I forget that I'm
heartbroken.
My_Breakup
I was seeing this guy off and on for quite a while. He started dating someone else and told me they were just friends. I told him to tell me the truth because I I really liked him and didn't want to date anyone else. He agreed with me and said the same thing. Turns out he was dating her and dating me, lying to both of us. Then he decides to go to Nashville for a trip, next thing you know he's emailing me and the other girl telling us he's getting married to a girl he met in California who he lied about as well. Every word out of his mouth is a big fat lie.
My_Breakup
Last night the guy I've been dating for 5 months called me up to say he couldn't see me anymore because he decided to be "exclusive" with some other woman who he thought he was "more compatible with in the long term" (fantastic euphemism, thank you). I'm actually not devastated because a) I don't want a husband and kids right now b) he was not particularly funny, cute or smart. c) now that I know he's a lying deceiving weasel, I'm relieved to be rid of him. But I did eat a big bowl of chocolate ice cream and that hit the spot.
My_Breakup
Bill dumped me over a year ago. First we were in love, then he had to wash his car on Saturdays, and after a while he only called me when he was horny. When he finally said he wasn't interested in a relationship anymore, I left his belongings on the sidewalk in the rain and started dating his best friend. Why waste time? Life is short and who needs a guy who would rather be with his car? Felix and I got engaged two months ago and then came the phone call from a drunken, desperate "why-did-I-do-this?" sorry-ass Bill. But I'm no one's sucker!
My_Breakup
I'd been dating the love of my life for the past four years. I am 35, he is 27. I met him when he made no money and I was a single mother of a 6 year old boy. My son loved him like a father. I supported him emotionally and financially. After 3 years, he got a great paying job and many new things (for himself!).about 2 months ago I found out I was pregnant. On Xmas he went home to Virgnina to visit friends and family and never called me once. On New Year's Eve I went to the E.R. and suffered a violent miscarriage. During this time he was unreachable. It turned out (through some spying on my part) that he was with another woman that night and couldn't be bothered with my miscarriage. He comes home today and I've already packed most of his belongings. I'm heartbroken beyond belief.
